Things Women Do That Turn Men Off ( And Have No Clue About)
10. Ignoring Him
Some women have the habit of spending long hours on the phone chatting away with their friends. Please, can you save the girls’ talk for when your man is not around? It’s a turnoff for guys as they like attention especially when they are with you.
They expect to have the whole of your attention. They could get jealous too because they feel since they have you at that moment, you should concentrate on them.
Having looked at the turn-offs what are the solutions?
I’d show you how to make your relationship work with the male folk with a few checklists.
- Instead of trying to analyze his every move, why not take it one step at a time? Enjoy every phase of your relationship- Be happy, exude positive vibes. Men are attracted to happy and positive women.
- Don’t try to chase a man, it’s not your job. Let him pursue you, don’t play games to win him, allow things to happen naturally.
- Be confident. Hold your head up high and dare to dream and follow them through.
- Be positive about your relationships- where you notice a red flag, talk it out. Don’t tolerate inappropriate behavior all in the name of love. In the long run, you may get weary and break down due to pressure. Love forgives but is not stupid in taking decisions when there’s a threat to life.
No man is perfect and will never fit into your mold. You will have to let some things be and learn to live with them, overlook minor issues that make you upset and try dialoguing to meet in the middle concerning sensitive issues.
Where you can assist your man, please go ahead and do it lovingly. He will slip and make errors, please don’t come down hard on him and make him feel bad, focus on his strengths and use it to reach out to his failings. Encourage him and bring out the best in him.