10 Obvious Signs You Are Not Compatible With Your Partner
Are We Too Different To Make It Work?
No! You are not too different such that it can’t work? If you fall under the category of people who say, ‘we are not compatible but I love him or her’, you can still have a shot at it provided the both of you are willing to go the extra mile to make it work.
Remember relationship is a collective and collaborative effort. If you two understand yourselves and are determined to make it work, it will definitely work.
Before you start fretting about the issue of incompatibility with your partner, try to be calm, be true to yourself, have a heart to heart conversation with your partner and see how it goes. The basic things you should look at concerning your partner in terms of compatibility are core values.
If your differences are minor disagreements and little things that can be resolved, it’s better to resolve them. Successful relationships are built on resolving incompatibilities and learning to deal with differences.
It is necessary you pinpoint the key areas in which compatibility is important. Such areas include temperament, intellect, life goals, interests, etc.
It’s important you understand why your partner likes what they like and be supportive of them even when you don’t share the same interest. You don’t have to like what they like but just give them support when necessary.
That being said, you also have to identify areas and correct values that are non-negotiable and not flexible. After articulating why such values are important to you and why they can’t be compromised you have to decide if you can live with this for the rest of your life.
You have to decide if four(4) to eight(8) years from now when the love that brought you two together is famished, if you can still continue in the relationship without feelings of regrets and hurts.